When Comparison Clouds Your Vision

When Comparison Clouds Your Vision

Comparison rarely begins with jealousy. It begins with a question. “Why them?” Why do they seem to have the happy marriage? The successful career? A healthy body? Financial security? The opportunities I prayed for? But perhaps asking those questions is...
When Letting Go Feels Like Losing

When Letting Go Feels Like Losing

There is a reason offense is so difficult to release. It feels like letting go means letting someone get away with what they did. Like surrendering our right to justice. Or like saying the wound didn’t matter. So we hold on. Because we’re afraid of what...
Nothing to Prove

Nothing to Prove

Some of us learned very early in life that love had to be earned. Maybe it was through a father’s absence or criticism. Or maybe it was through constantly striving for approval that never seemed to come. Whatever the source, the message was the same: “If I...
When You Feel Guilty for Resting

When You Feel Guilty for Resting

Have you ever sat down to rest and immediately started thinking about all the things you should be doing? The dishes. Emails. Text messages. Notifications. Projects on your to-do list that never seem to get done. Ministry opportunities. The never-ending list. I...
When Your Child’s Struggles Feel Like Your Failure

When Your Child’s Struggles Feel Like Your Failure

There is a unique kind of pain that motherhood brings. It is the pain of watching someone you love make choices you would not choose. The pain of seeing them struggle. And the pain of praying prayers that seem unanswered. And if we’re not careful, shame quietly...
When Momma Guilt Becomes Your Identity

When Momma Guilt Becomes Your Identity

Mom guilt has a way of following us everywhere. It shows up after the rushed morning, after the impatient response, and after the forgotten thing, the hard day, the overwhelming moment. And if we’re not careful, guilt slowly shifts into something deeper: Shame. And...

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