The Freedom of Being Teachable

The Freedom of Being Teachable

With a hint of arrogance, the “gentleman” made a less-than-favorable statement about my work without even looking at it. Then he went on to say I was selected for a position because I was a woman and the company I worked for had to meet a quota. Yes, this...
Letting Honor Heal Your Hurt

Letting Honor Heal Your Hurt

We talk about hurt a lot when it comes to shame, but what if the way out is honor? Our natural response is often “Why should I honor someone who didn’t honor me?” It’s a fair question. But perhaps we’re asking the wrong one. What if honor isn’t...
When Rejection Feels Personal

When Rejection Feels Personal

Have you ever walked away from a relationship wondering: What is wrong with me? Maybe someone stopped calling. A friendship changed. A family member rejected you. Someone you loved chose someone else. How do you love when rejection feels so personal? You tried to...
When Rejection Feels Personal

Healing from Church Hurt

Walking into a church as the new Worship Arts and Family Ministry Director, I took a deep breath and asked Jesus to go before me. Healing from church hurt was not easy. Past church hurt had made me a little nervous during my first weeks in this new position. Then it...
Overcoming Shame After Friendship Wounds

Overcoming Shame After Friendship Wounds

We’ve all likely felt shame when friends hurt us. We believe there must be something wrong with us or that we are unlovable. And we can be tempted to feel shame because we are aware that those who hurt us are spreading that hurt to others. But one of...

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