Releasing Shame When Others Hurt You

Releasing Shame When Others Hurt You

When others hurt us, there is a temptation to harden our hearts—to shut down and keep others from hurting us again. But this is not how Christ intended us to relate to one another when hurt causes division. Releasing shame when others hurt you frees you to love and...
How to Keep Your Heart Soft in a Hard World

How to Keep Your Heart Soft in a Hard World

This week, I was reminded of why it is so important to guard your heart, but not in the way of keeping others out; guarding our heart from becoming hard when we are tempted to feel hurt by others. We know the drill. Words are spoken, and we feel that familiar squeeze...
When Comparison Clouds Your Vision

When Comparison Clouds Your Vision

Comparison rarely begins with jealousy. It begins with a question. “Why them?” Why do they seem to have the happy marriage? The successful career? A healthy body? Financial security? The opportunities I prayed for? But perhaps asking those questions is...
Get Better Not Bitter

Get Better Not Bitter

“Get better, not bitter.” We’ve all likely heard that expression before. Or perhaps a new way to express the heart behind this phrase on the heels of July 4th: “Get freedom, not even.” The truth is, we cannot overcome bitterness unless we...
Freedom Isn’t Free

Freedom Isn’t Free

This week, our nation celebrates freedom. We might gather with family and friends, wave flags, watch fireworks, and remember the sacrifices made so we could live in a free country. Freedom is precious. But it has always come at a cost. But as I have reflected on...

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